where to begin or end?

[jade]

Im not sure if id be on the hook for her out of pocket medical bills. My theory for removal was financial protection and/or removing a marital benefit, not to be a jerk. Isnt some of the DB stuff for her not to benefit off me and let the reality of losing me set in, right?
Besides he had an affair with a married woman and is married himself, and my wife hasnt filed, i have no clue what hes like. i did not find any criminal record.
My lawyer told me if i had filed prior to the kids meeting OM, i could have had courts limit his access, until further along in divorce preceedings because of it all being too much, too fast for kids, but now a past precedent has been set, cant undo it.