I am usually on board with everything you say but, the comment about men and women not having "private friendships" is a bit shocking.
It's basically like saying the only way to keep a drunk from drinking is by keeping alcohol out of the fridge. If the desire is there, they will find a way. All men being attracted to all women (friend or not) and vice Versa is a bit crazy. It sounds a lot like the closed minded "straight" guys saying gay guys need to stay away from them because they assume all gay guys go after all guys.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
