If she has friends and family pushing her to D you will have to find a way to get those negative voices out of her head so she can think clearly for herself. Some of her thoughts are to not disappoint them and not really her own thoughts. That would explain her confusion on what to do.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5