Originally Posted By: MelBear

All that time I felt so isolated and alone, and he was carrying, spending holidays with her and everything. At this point I have told my family, and everyone is devastated. My dad said that he feels everything was done deliberately by him as to facilitate living a double life for as long as he could... family life and kids with me, partying and single life with her. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too...


Hello MelBear,

I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

You are so smart to recognize that your husband has been cake eating this entire time.

You mentioned that you wished you had DB advice from the beginning. It isn't too late! How you implement going dark and establishing some boundaries is key to moving forward in a positive way.

Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.

Cristy
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