You mentioned taking off the ring may help you "move on and drop the rope"....I like to look at it more as moving "forward". Mentally to me, it makes a difference. Moving on is to me, giving up. Moving forward is about you carrying on with your life regardless of the R
No J20, trust me when I say that I don't look forward to moving on or forward w/o her. I just don't know what to do. She has obviously convinced herself that life is or will be better w/o me...even though I think she is just confused. Her mother did the same thing to her dad, and her grandmother did the same thing to her maternal grandfather. It is scary. Her mother swears that she didn't have anyone waiting or wasn't having an A, but who knows what is real anymore.
I guess I will just play it by ear. She has been my world for 25 years, so it will take a while to make the decision.For me anyway.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
