Here we go again.. (2)

[matw]

Hi Matt

I'm sorry that you're here is what I would say is meet her and listen ....listen to what she has to say validate her feelings try and let her do as much of the talking as you can If there is one thing that I have learnt from all this is ultimately you have no control on what the other person decides to do

I really wish you well

Take care

Thanks Atpeace. I really think that is the only thing I can do. I really just need to make sure I keep my emotions in check and not show how much this is hurting me. My plan is to validate and listen but let her know that a divorce isn't what I want at this time but can't stop her from pursuing it. It just sort of [censored] because when she was moving into the apartment we both agreed that we would give it 6 months before we decided on a divorce.