The perfect metaphor just occurred to me! You stall an airplane and the nose falls. You're instinct is to pull up, but you know that you have to push down to regain airspeed. Right now, you're stalled and you need to do the opposite of what you're currently doing so you can regain airspeed and start flying again. Does that help?
Oops...I think I confused you with mattw. So, if you're not a pilot, then disregard the metaphor.
I was impressed you were pulling out Airplane references on other people's sitch as well!
Anyways nutts I agree with Doodler and think you should probably do the opposite of what your currently doing as well. I am having troubles with that too and its extremely hard but what I am doing now isn't working very well either.
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