I think you've been doing well with going dark and that shows a lot of self-control - more than I managed certainly...

Do you see that when you limit contact with him, he reaches out? Probably if you interacted 'too much' for him, he would pull back.

Glad that you received some funds anyway :-) x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus