Hi Matt

I'm sorry that you're here is what I would say is meet her and listen ....listen to what she has to say validate her feelings try and let her do as much of the talking as you can If there is one thing that I have learnt from all this is ultimately you have no control on what the other person decides to do

I really wish you well

Take care


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.