New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[bigybiz]

Georgia:

For me in the cheap seats can you be a little more clear. Are you saying it worked for you to pursue her? Nutts and I might like you to clarify? I think most of us LBH are trying to become the best husband every if not for the current, the future Mrs. We get that it's up to her to decide if she wants to be part of it or not.

But how did you walk the line of protecting/distancing yourself and letting her know that you are the man God chose for her and will be there no matter what?