I agree w/Westo...just leave it be. There's no need to say anything about the issue. Set up an appointment w/a lawyer as soon as possible so that you know what you are legally entitled to. This will help alleviate any anxiety you may have about what to expect, etc. and then keep that info to yourself. Do not discuss it w/your kids, family, friends or your h. This info is yours and only yours to keep close. Once you've gotten the info, sit back and if he truly wants a divorce, he will start the ball rolling. Don't help him w/this...he needs to do the heavy work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
