2tours to add some thoughts: In your sitch, as painful as it is, it sounds like the MC is being fair (or swinging in your favor a bit) in the sense that your W made her bed and now she must lie in it. It already seems the wind has been taken out of her sails and she's not happy, and you know this. I feel this is positive for you and allows you to go NC and GAL and strengthen yourself. Sounds like you are doing it right. It's so interesting to compare our situations, it's helped me to read yours to realize what parts are bothering me, why, and how I can re-focus. My H framed the NC, and saying his IC said he should take space to heal, to get away from me, to be happy-- obviously demonizing me in the process. I've allowed his slant to affect my NC Gal, but I shouldn't! I need to follow your power lead!
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
