Thanks Doodler. I know you are right on this. My wife's recent willingness to have sex with me the last 3 days has been a bit of a stumbling block for me. I know she is just trying to keep me on the hook in case things don't go the way she wants or if she changes her mind. It is just really hard to pass up being with her in that way. Not to mention I was missing our sex life in a big way. We were very active even after BD. Then about 2 or 3 months ago it stopped all together. Now she is affectionate(hugging, kissing and sex) even though she is ready to move out. All this makes my head spin.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17