Isn't that holiday stuff sometimes part of the legal agreement? Some people split Christmas - Christmas Eve with one parent then the day with the other, next year switch off.
Just had this conversation over the weekend with my friend who is a psychologist. That's been her experience of clients going through this.
Excellent job not responding to the crazy.
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"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver