Do I keep doing the LRT or go as dark as possible? Do I keep up this friendly and seemingly positive thing we have going right now? I'm just not sure how to proceed.
BillyHo,
In my opinion, you should remain LRT and definitely be positive and friendly, but it should be neighbor-friendly not spouse-friendly (no sexual innuendo or @ss slapping). Get out and GAL as much as possible. Your wife may not be spewing, but if she's planning on moving out, you're still plan B; don't let her eat cake.
