MLC H at age 32, maybe single mum with a toddler S

[Maybe]

Firstly, thanks rose for your reply. I had since done more reading on detaching. I think I now know what you mean. Great that your H comes to his sense after only 3 months.

Okay, updates. I was having some bed days again. Both me and son are sick, not fun coz son is so young. Went out everyday to keep upbeat and busy. Comes Monday H texted about not wanting to come on unusual time. This is after I suggested him not to visit on Mondays coz he always cancels last minute. He took it as in me keeping son away from him. Then 2 hours before him coming I received the text. Still was disappointed even knowing I have to detach.

Then today he picked up son from kinder coz I work Tuesdays. He asked a few times how I am doing. Eventually he said how are you doing really, mentally. I literally lol. I said I have good and bad days, being ill doesn't help. Mind you I said it with a smile, but still, probably should lie? I said what about you. He said he's miserable. He also mentioned he's not liking where he lives. He moved his computer back coz it's not working. He just took it last week. He always gave me a hug when he left and realised I just wanted to get to my seat and moved away. He said goodbye multiple times, seemingly reluctant to leave. I am sensing he's having thoughts about moving back. Again, I am watching carefully without jumping to conclusions.

He also seems to be doing his hobbies, visiting his mums, and having a laugh with me here and there. Read from the MLC forum that these could be signs of him coming out of the tunnel. Yet, still reactive towards things I said, still making plans to party, still seems to lie. So yeah. Not hopeful, GALby joining a dance studio tomorrow. Yay!