So I had my youngest all day today due to him not feeling well. The W just picked him up for the rest of the week and I noticed that she isn't wearing her wedding ring. I guess it should come as no surprise since she wants the D, but dang it was kind of a blow. She has been out of the house for 4 weeks, but this was the first I noticed the no ring thing. I heard someone say that the M was over at BD, but not for me. I think I will wear my ring until I'm legally not married anymore. It just hurts. I had bought her a new diamond and setting years ago, because the first set wasn't as nice as we wanted her to have.
What's just as weird is that she won't make eye contact with me now. Not sure if it's guilt or something else, but it is odd.
Well of course she won't look you in the eye, she is consumed with guilt on one side and high on endorphins becouse of her new found "freedom". In her mind she is "finally" free and "now is the time for her to be happy". In her mind she's taken care of the happiness of you and the kids for soooo long and now the time has come for her to be happy.
My W after BD started dating OM (even though he was married), and when OM started sleeping with W's boss at the same time, my W had a sort of a nervous breakdown. She joined some dating sites and went on looking for happiness. WEll 2 years later she still has not found happiness and looks worse than ever.
These is some crazy $hit going on in MLC mind, and if a LBS is exposed to this craziness, it can drive a man insane. So a MLC'er is best left to him/her self to work out their $hit. No one can help them, least of all LBS. They can benefit from IC, but they have to want help.
