Focus on Me and the Boys 10

[DonH]

I really have to jump in here as this is making my head explode. I pay much more attention to what people do rather than what they say. Anyone can say they will do anything. It's their actions that really tell the story. You say "I will do everything I can to protect them and fight for them." That's what you say and for a while seems to be your actions. Unless I'm remembering incorrectly and have the wrong guy, you fought for them and got what you wanted and what was best and are now about to give that all up - or at least put it at great risk. You are walking into a lions den with those kids and could end up in a very bad situation. It's clear your ex does not have those kids best interest at heart. She clearly would be dangerous if given custody or even more time with them. The courts saw this and made sure to not allow that to happen. And in turn you are going to move them closer to her, allow her to harm them on a more routine basis and risk a new court changing what you were given. You fought hard for what you wanted and what was best and were given it and in return are giving parts of it back. It's almost like winning the game and then allowing the other team to score at the last minute due to a bad play. Tell me how this is "doing everything to protect them". If you truly were doing everything to protect them you would not be Moving them to ex wife so she can further damage them. Nearly everyone here says much the same, yet...