I'm glad the meeting w/the lawyer went okay. As long as you are fair that is all that matters. Now, in his mind, nothing will be fair no matter what...but I know that you will do right by your h.
Try to remain as calm as possible and don't forget to breathe along the way! If you have to step back a bit and regroup, that's okay.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.