Is there any advice for what I should do, or is it just more patience?
nutts,
In my opinion, she's still very deep in the WW fog and she probably doesn't currently have any intention of remaining with you over the long term. She'll keep you on the hook forever (i.e. Plan B) if you let her. Get a life (GAL) and show her that you're moving on.
Doodler,
So, we're in this limbo now, going through the motions of life, but not really with each other. For me, showing her I'm moving on would be to get the finances she's asking for, and ask her to work on the divorce numbers.
I'm not sure I want to take that step, as she will probably continue to push for it.
Of course, she might not, maybe she'll start to revert some. It's just a hard line for me to take, but maybe I should do it, the divorce won't be final for a while yet.
Either way, always appreciate your advice.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
