Hi Sotto, Andrew, Peace and Bttrfly :-)
I Hope you all had a great thanksgiving weekend.

Sotto. not sure if you saw my answers to your questions. I answered them in red in an above post. #2717447 - 11/23/16 07:46 AM

Andrew. lol I would love to have the guts to pull off a bow tie. One day :-)

Originally Posted By: peace
I don't see her as a lost cause..especially if she's in therapy and continues to go within for healing-


That is if she is really in therapy. I think of her telling me this was just looking for pity. she was all over the place with her texts. I hope she is because it will be key for her to come out of this somewhat normal.

Originally Posted By: bttrfly

I don't think you let anyone down, Irish. I prefer to think of these things as learning experiences. If it develops into a pattern that's something else. But you know I've noticed that you never make the same mistake twice, so that's why I think it's a learning experience for you and by sharing, for us also.


Thanks bttrfly xoxox means a lot your encouragement.

yes we do learn a lot here.


Small update.

No news from XW since that phone call. Was a nice break. Got my emotions back on track and actually i feel very good about everything.

This morning my D14 texts me. She is ill. Dizzy and blurred vision. Not doing well at all. I cancel all my meetings for the day and rush to her school. In Canada where I am you can go to the clinic. Get a number and they text you to come back when their is 3 people before you. So no waiting in the clinic. So i am home waiting for my text to come back. D14 is better but I will still get her checked out.

My Questions is. Do I advise XW. I think I should but I know her response will be OK. thanks. let me know. She won't ask how she is or even message me back to find out whats up. I know I'm mind reading but I'm at the point where I can't predict her response.


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015