Apparently there is a new tax law coming into effect in April that would cost us a lot of money if we divorce after that so is pushing for a quick divorce.
Speak with an attorney ASAP and get some advice on this. I don't know what the new tax law is, but it seems highly unlikely that there's a new law that would adversely affect BOTH of you - more likely it is something that would adversely affect HIM and benefit YOU. Find out the facts. Information is power.
And don't confuse the divorce with the relationship. This is all about business. Don't fall into the trap of thinking if you are "nice" to him and give in to all his demands, he'll be more likely to come back. He won't. He's actually more likely to return if he has to deal with the financial reality of a fair divorce that gives you everything you are legally entitled to. People can and do reconcile after divorce, being divorced won't make it impossible for that to happen. So try to take the emotion out of it and start protecting your financial interests. Make that attorney appointment today.
