Focus on Me and the Boys 10

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"The courts did not rule anything. This is what she and I agreed upon and the courts are signing off on. "

I thought all of the psych testing was to find out which parent is best suited to have primary physical custody. I must have missed something. What was the psych testing for?

If you are moving to Toronto so your kids will see their mom every other weekend, why is she against your move? Something isn't right here.

I agree with you dream...much in JK's story indicate that there are many things amiss...many emotional decisions, sharing of information that does not add up...huge life changing decisions based on things that do not make sense...much seeking of validation for behavior that is not inline with DB principles, emotional maturity, wisdom...

I do have the same concerns. That is why when I move it will be because it is what I want for me and the boys. I will stick to the plan that Georgia Bulldogs suggested in order to protect the boys. If she exposes the boys to OM then that is her issue to deal with. We will have to take stock of her actions after the move.

JK, you are concerned at how your XW behaves and her thoughts about your sons, so you will move closer, because you say it is financially better for you, follow Georgia Bulldogs advice to protect yourself (and it is decent advice) knowing that lawyer costs will continue to add up in order to protect yourself?
You say that XW will have to deal with the issues of exposing sons to OM, but that you will take stock of her actions?

There is so much discrepancy in what is share here...there is something not right.

JK, I continue to wish you the best...I continue to pray that you can hear what many are saying to you...but in the end you will make the decisions that you choose too...it seems such a waste though...so much unneeded drama that can be avoided if you would sit still for a spell...even walk away for a bit and do the work that is needed for clarity.
You do have more control than it seems...and it appears that you continue to choose to give it away...

Be well my friend...