That was very good whatitis, given his past sexual innuendo! The best humor is always based in truth.
I have to say, I find life so blasted interesting. Remember when it was considered poor form to break up with someone over text? I think that's more for longer term things but still, different world. Now days they just stop communicating and never even say why. I'd at least do it over the phone but that's just me. The fact that you are being so careful and wanting to do this the best you can us what makes you such a great person!
You don't really owe him some detailed explanation Ginger. You guys went out a few times, had some fun, I'm guessing weren't even intimate. None of my business either way and I don't really care, but my point is, this is not like when ex ng broke up with you after a much longer time, vacations together, ILY and the rest. This is dating G. You tried him out for an appropriate amount of time and he's just not for you. He's not a terrible guy, just not your right fit. Don't feel bad about that. You have done nothing wrong here. Don't feel as if you have. You did everything well if you ask me and it's just time to see if there is a better fit in your future. He's a big boy, he will be fine. Don't take on his "pain" whatever lower level, for a few days that it may be.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D