Hey j2, how are you feeling today? Caught up on your sitch and I get the anger and fear and I think it is normal and okay to feel those, but just don't let them consume you.

I agree with darknes on " the marriage is pretty much already over at BD", but that doesn't make it any easier to work through the pain. It does, for me at least, help me remember that even if my W does find her way back to me we will be building some new all together, and hopefully something stronger and better than it was before, as 2 stronger and better individuals.


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17