I haven't posted in a while, mainly because little has changed. I'm still doing the detached thing, and GAL'ing, and she's still in the other bedroom. I'm 100% positive she isn't in another A, so that's still the same. She isn't mean to me, but she isn't extra nice either. She's pleasant around me, but not much more. There have been no more gifts from her, and same for me (if you recall, she bought me cologne and wallet, and I thanked her with some flowers).
She did ask me if I've looked at our finances, basically, I have to pull up numbers as far as how much money I had before we got married, equity in the house, etc. I said no, then she asked me about getting an appraiser, I told her she can do that part. nothing else was said. There was no pressure to get it down, like, "well, you need to get those numbers soon" she just asked me about it.
I'm not sure she still fits the WW mold. I think she's more in a WAW mode now, and she just doesn't feel she can love me again.
Is there any advice for what I should do, or is it just more patience? I often wonder if I should try to get her to go out to dinner one night, or anything to actively spend time with her. I'm just concerned if I continue down this current road, nothing will change.
Thanks all, and good luck to everyone.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
