Hey Maybe, both those ideas sound great!

Hawker, I'm hanging in there. Most days I'm able to not think about it much and when I do think about my sitch or my W I can usually feel pretty detached from it. Obviously I have occasions where I get a bit angry about it all, but thankfully those moments pass.

W and I don't speak much at all, and when we do I keep it all business. She seems to enjoy throwing extra things in there though for some reason. Like Friday we had to discuss (via text) getting our joint account closed and she had to include how she wasn't worried about me having access to her money because she trust me completely. I thought to myself, well I don't trust you worth a dang, but of course I just ignored her comment and didn't acknowledge it. She also seems to be more "talkative" when she isn't with OW. I just also ignore those.

How are you doing Hawker?


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17