Hanging on and hoping for the best

[BillyHo]

Yesterday I woke up early and went for a drive and bought donuts for the boys. When I got home W was getting out of the shower. When I went upstairs to get my clothes to get ready for church we brushed against each other. We both stopped for a second, looked at each other and then proceeded to have sex.

After I got my shower we had a talk in the kitchen about how we are going to tell the boys she is moving out. We decided on next weekend but not exactly what to say to them. We stood there staring at each other for what seemed like hours. There was music playing and it seemed like every song was about us. She cried several times and at one point we slow danced in the middle of the kitchen.

After about 1.5 hrs of that I told her I was going out. She asked where and I said to look at some furniture. I went out for the rest of the afternoon. When I got home she was decorating the house with Christmas stuff. She made dinner and then we all went out to look at Christmas lights. This is the first time in probably 5 months that we have done anything all together. When we got home she went back to decorating and I went up to bed.

I am so confused as to what I am supposed to do here. I am not pursuing her. She is initiating all of this contact and conversations. I am not crying or pleading for her to change her mind. I have heard varying opinions on the sex thing. There is no hostility in our interactions. I make sure that it's clear that I am moving on by doing my own thing and preparing to be on my own. Please somebody help point me in the right direction.