Thanks cadet. I think she already plans to file from the way she acted today. She showed no emotion for the first time. A little bit of anger but no sadness. She wouldn't even look at me. I sit here in our home with a blank stare. We just moved into the place a year ago. It's amazing how life can turn upside down. She said that getting all her things is the last step in having to deal with me and now she can move on with life. She's at her parents so she doesn't have to deal with the loneliness like I do. I just don't know anymore