She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

So I hope everyone had a great holiday weekend. It was rough being away from my Kids...and even the W for the last week. i picked up the kids yesterday and have enjoyed relaxing with them. Back to the bump and grind of work and school tomorrow.

I have not posted much this weekend, but have kept up on some situations. I guess I still get overwhelmed at the number of us going thru this at any given moment.

I spent some time reading from Sandi on her WW posts...can our spouse that with ink is in MLC also be WW? It seems that if they are cheating then they are wayward...right? And it seems that all we can do is GAL, move forward as if by ourselves, and become better men. If they see it and like it then great...if not then someone will notice you that may fill your needs better???

The W has been gone 4 weeks already and I am still coping with the quiet. She came by today to get her Christmas decor...I surely don't feel festive, but I will do what my kids want regarding the decorating. Going thru this around the holidays sure does stink.