hey Tad, I agree with Sotto's woody cologne suggestion, but not so much on the physical touch suggestion. That would actually not work for me ... not sure if that confuses you more, I think you ought to keep doing what you've been doing, because that is obviously working, and let her lead the way.
Glad you've got a lot of positives going on for you xoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver