Hi Huddy, I'm glad to hear you and the kids have been doing some nice things - good for you.

Can any of us really say we are being all that we can be? Aren't we all works in progress? What are your goals for yourself in coming months (independent of your marriage and W?)

In your sitch Huddy, I would love to see your broaden your definition of success beyond reconciling with your W to surviving and then thriving yourself (ie: genuinely living a meaningful and happy life, regardless of your marital situation...)

it's not easy to get there - but it is possible....and it involves truly letting go of her and the M and focusing on you...externally and internally..

Hope you enjoy the rest of the weekend Huddy :)X

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus