I can't recall if this has been posted before, but have you read Pigpen's thread and the exchanges with his STBXW about their doggy? Wonka gave him a great deal of advice about wording things.
This is just a thought, but rather than see your H just now, might it be an option for pup to be dropped off at a neutral place by one of you then picked up by the other? A mutual friend or even doggy day care if you use that?
We all have off days Feyth, just accept these when they happen and get back in the saddle as soon as you are able. All we need to do is keep moving forward with tiny steps, accepting invitations, trying new things, building our own lives and acting from our 'best' selves. If you do all of that, you can't really fail I promise - whatever H may be doing...xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
