OK, here we go...1) you have no idea whether exNG is "happy" or not...you are not him 2) a man who adores a woman is willing to plan time with her further than the next weekend and will travel to be with her if necessary. I'm sure he had many wonderful traits, or you wouldn't have fallen for him, but he does not fit the definition of adoring! Regarding the plumber, just message him that you've enjoyed getting to know him but you don't feel there's a match here...wish him all the best and bye bye. Hang in there, G...you shall rise again
