Hanging on and hoping for the best

[trumpet]

I would disagree on the sex.

I would ask her to get tested for STD's before having sex again, or using protection.

Ultimate temp check, you gave in, she has you and possibly OM in perfect position. Gotta get close to the wall to push off and head in the other direction.

I could be completely, utterly wrong on what I just said. I'm not in your sitch. But I've read enough of Sandi and others that the sex was a power play by her.

Respect thyself.