She can get them whenever she would like. I'm not preventing it but she doesn't want to do it when I'm home. She text late last night talking about how sad she is and can't quit crying. She went on to say that she thinks of me and the last few days have made her sick not talking but she can't be with me. She wanted to know how I felt and I just said I was too emotionally exhausted to feel anything right now and that this is what she wanted. She finally asked what I wanted and I screwed up and said to be happy together and work on our marriage. She stopped texting after that but I think she fell asleep since it was 1am. I haven't heard anything since from her.
Today is her birthday. I want to text her happy birthday but I don't know if I should??