I don't, but my W still does. This is a MAJOR thorn in my side. In my earlier reconciling days this didn't bother me. 9 months post BD it's really starting to get to me. I seriously want to out this d.ickhead to his wife. Plus, I cannot go to her work anymore for fear of confrontation.
She's assured me through counseling that she barely pays him the time of day, but how do we really, truly know? I have access to her work email, and did catch them communicating after BD, but nothing since. How do we truly know that they don't have a throw away email that they only use at work?
Trust is destroyed. The longer we reconcile, the more questions I have. I've gotten angry at our MC as well, because she keeps telling me I need to move on and recovery started immediately after BD. By living in the past, I'm opening up scabs. Yet, her working with him daily is a constant reminder.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
