Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hello I know you are both correct I need to focus on me and kids only. .This week I kept thinking need to let go . He is an adult and I don't need to rescue him. I am having troubles doing that but one day at a time ...I am doing part time job here when I moved and we'll just got a call from my old work which I took a year leave rather than resign Saying they want me still so as to come back. I am thinking to start with them working from here for couple of months after Xmas. Well when I left I didnot think of going back but they are really nice and I canwork through VPN if they accept. . In the past they have been very accommodating ... I'll send them an email soon and see their response .. I am also willing my to travel bAck and forth every 2 months so let's see. So for last two days I started thinking that I need to depend fully on my self again as if he is not here might be even better.somehow I feel someone above is looking after me.
Ok out of the blues my H makes acontact creat a group on WhatsApp with his other number not the one I and mom send a msg on. He puts kids me and him o. The group and send a msg as if he was talking to us yesterday ...here is anew group to communicate and we need to find a picture for the group ...no acknowledgement if he saw mom msg or mine ... my mom is leaving back tomorrow .... his other number shows no activity for a week ... he already has a group with kids why add me ... or is it to tell us use this number now ... any suggestions of how to reply