where to begin or end?

[jade]

No i wouldnt want her to conform to me, sure sometimes i wanted compromise or my needs met. I dont feel i ever pushed her to conform. If anyone conformed it may have been me. But in most cases, we would agree to disagree. So instead of coffee id drink cappacino or hot chocolate. If i wanted turkey id make turkey and then ham for her, or use an opportunity at a restaraunt to get my fix. Etc.. obviously these are just some basic examples.

I find hope that her unhealthy changes for him wont last forever. That eventually she will grow tired of being fake. But when will that occur, she has a very stubborn streak.

Just stinks that shes willing to abandon herself and morals for him.