where to begin or end?

[Rose888]

I always felt like we compromised well. We functioned as a great team. We werent the power couple, but all of our friends and family looked up to our relationship.
Her dislike for turkey or coffee preceeded our relationship. Most of the early years holidays were done at other family members but as we became more established, we became the stable/center of both our broken families.

To me her changes feel like shes trying very hard to conform to OM likes. He has a thing for batman, so wife had my son and daughter dress as batboy and batgirl girl for halloween. My daughter is a disney princess girl through n through. Daughter even asked if id let her wear a princess dress to school for halloween instead. To which wife then talked her out of, and then accused me of trying to manipulate my daughter

So based on what you say in this ^^^^post, this doesn't sound like healthy change for your wife. Which just emphasizes that this has nothing to do with you.

You wouldn't want your wife to co form to your likes, would you?