Focus on Me and the Boys 10

[PsySara]

She's just....wow! Because I do not know her personally or can test her I can't say for certainty but she appears very narcissistic. The fact that she would try to block the children from moving close to her is absolutely stunning to me.

Like me, you haven't really detached. You are still mind reading her and inserting emotion into her comments and texts. She has proven with her actions to be very wayward and even toxic for those kids. Look at her actions and stop listening to her words. Would moving be beneficial to your boys? Would she be a stable, nurturing mother who puts their needs above her desires? I am worried that she would actually damage them. And the fact that she would try to blok necessary therapy is just...awful. It's like refusing medication when your kid is sick.