By the way, these are just ideas to think about, not trying to criticize or bulldoze you. I do applaud standing by your M and think you are absolutely right to do so. That wasn't my point. I'm just trying to help you start to think about ways that detaching and standing can go together. I don't want you to suffer longer than is required.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
