Kids just informed me they had turkey along with wife yesterday. The kicker is my wife dislikes turkey. Weve always had to do ham at any holiday functions. Along with coffee. She always hated coffee, about the time the affair started she started drinking coffee too...
So?
Not all change is bad. One of the benefits of a marriage crisis is that it can shake both partners free of their own ruts and of forcing the other partner to stay in their rut.
There are legitimate issues--like the affair. Don't go wasting emotional energy on your wife expanding her taste.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
