Hi Job,

The girls are fine though D has suffered a couple of bruises to her leg. I know H has a credit card that he owes a lot on.

There are no cards in my name. I hope that the fact he's thinking of finances at this time of the year shows he isn't as reckless with money as he has been.

I think it's more positive than if he'd done nothing, even if it is guilt.

At least he's not feeling as resentful of me as he did when he left or he would have just given money to S and D. He knows I have access to the joint account if I'm desperate.

When. I read what others are being put through I feel lucky that I haven't put up with abusive texts etc.