Focus on Me and the Boys 10

[J5K]

Well the conversation at 9 am was short. She clearly stated she would not authorize any therapy for the boys.

Later that evening she wanted to talk again. I will spare the details as it was a constant swirl. I explained to XW that we were moving and she said she would not authorize the move.

I called my L the next day and my L was shocked that XW would not allow the boys to move. XW asked if I would pay her for watching S3 during the day while I was at work! I was appalled.

My L said we will be filing a motion to get the boys into therapy and for the move. L says no judge would deny a move so the boys could be closer to their mother.

I did also ask my L if I am allowed to record phone conversations and L said she will find out and let me know.

XW asked if I am still going to therapy, I said yes, then she tried to find out which therapist, I said it was none of her concern, so she mentioned the psychologist who did the family psych eval, thinking I am seeing her and XW actually told me that she thought this woman was a moron and did not agree with the psych eval at all. I could not believe what I heard.

Unless the princess gets her way she is going to fight me on everything. Yesterday she sends a text wishing all of us a Happy Thanksgiving and asked to speak with the boys. I thanked her and said I would have the boys call if we were back from my family's house otherwise it will be the next day.

On a more positive note, we went to my brother's house for Thanksgiving, 10 cousins were playing and having a blast, the boys were coming up and giving me hugs at various times throughout the day. It felt very nice. They were well behaved for the most part. I really enjoyed myself and felt happy and content.

Oh and if I have not officially stated, I am now D'd as of a week ago. I still do not feel like it though. It feels like XW and I are on a long vacation apart from each other.

She did state at one time during our conversation that we are still tied to each other because of the boys. Which is why I am still fighting for my M even though I am D'd.