I appreciate your wise advice as always, Job, Thank you again.
I am still very weepy and I know any meeting with WAH would go south very quickly...so I sent him a polite email saying I didn't think there was anything urgent that needed to be discussed at this time and that I was trying to get on with my life and trying to come to terms with what had happen. Seeing him made the process harder and I would appreciate some space to deal with it same as I had given him space. What do you think??
He is still traveling all over the place like a madman with GF - pretty much every weekend to a different country and I don't see any point in having an 'us' discussion while he is still in manic 'running away' frame of mind. It would just hurt me too much. I cannot bare to see him sitting there looking at me as if he feels nothing at all. And I sure don't want a divorce discussion hanging over my head during the upcoming holidays...
