That's exactly what I did last week weekend when we started talking/texting. We had several good conversations finally not revolving on the past. It was almost like we were almost normal again. She kept calling me baby and she kept the conversations going. She wanted to come to the house Sunday but changed her mind at the last minute. Then all of a sudden she went back to we need to stop talking because we are getting a divorce.
Her complaints are that I didn't show her love. I agree with that 100% now. Too much was always about me and what I wanted. I didn't give her physical affection outside the bedroom. She says she started to fall out of love and we shouldn't have got married in the first place. She wanted to go to counseling before we got married to discuss all of this and I wouldn't go. Now that I'm gong she won't. That's the part that hurts. I know I can be the husband she wants me to be now if she would just let me show it. Actions not words but how do I do that when we don't see each other?? Part of me thinks she knows if we see each other we will have sex and that scares her. She always a tells me that we had the best sex of her life and when we are around each other it just happens. I feel like she's drifting apart further and further. We have been married for only 5 months and she acts like we are just dating and the marriage doesn't mean anything. I haven't contacted her since we talked Monday but it's hard!!!
