Thank you for stopping by with your wise words Andrew, greatly appreciated.
Just a quick update,
Our daughter had a car accident last Friday. Her and our Grandaughter are fine just a little shaken H text her today for the first time since June as he'd just heard of the accident and was worried. Asked that if she needed any money to help with the repairs for her to send him her bank details.
He said that he had transferred money to my account to help pay for Christmas stuff but wasn't sure if I knew that he had (I didn't)
She replied saying they were ok, and asked how he was doing. He answered that he was ok but still unsure about things.
I asked our son if he'd heard from him since SS wedding in September. He said he received a text from him two weeks ago asking if he was ok and if he had any news.
Son has not replied and has no intention to.
Question.........do I email a thank you for the money transfer or not? Gut feeling tells me to leave well alone.