New to the 180. Help?

[j20a00g]

For someone who claims to have detached, you sure seem to have a lot of conversations with him. Infact, I even recall you saying something like "we have to have something to talk about on the phone"....no, you don't. Even the cell phone convo was way too long then moved into a convo about places to live. Quit letting him be more comfortable with destroying your marriage by allowing him to be your friend. Unless that's the role you want permanently.