Hi Kitti, Know what you mean about not posting as much. I do the same. You're in good company when it comes to processing those infamous anniversaries. Much journalling has been done on it ... Lostlove, Shiny, Jeaninne, Tal ... to name a few. No getting around it, its part of the healing process. Either you can pick at the scab, which reopens the wound or you can put a bandage over it so it continues to heal. That's what overlaying the old hurtful memories with newer better memories does.
Sometimes those scabs can itch pretty intensely. If it get to compelling to want to scratch just let me know. I'm at your disposal to hold you down so you can't reach the itch.
OK I'd better stop ... Its late and I'm getting groggy.
You're in good company when it comes to processing those infamous anniversaries. Much journalling has been done on it ... Lostlove, Shiny, Jeaninne, Tal ... to name a few. No getting around it, its part of the healing process. Either you can pick at the scab, which reopens the wound or you can put a bandage over it so it continues to heal. That's what overlaying the old hurtful memories with newer better memories does. 
